Passion, Dominion, and Legacy
By Darth Véhemen
The Jidai, in their feeble attempt to master the Force, seek to deny passion. They cut themselves off from love, from desire, from the very forces that drive existence itself. They call this discipline. I call it cowardice.
The Sith are not cowards. We do not live cold and sterile lives, devoid of feeling. We do not shy away from the fires that burn within us. We embrace them. Love, lust, ambition, fury; these are the forces that propel us forward, that drive us to seize what is ours by right. But as with all things, these forces must be mastered. Passion unrestrained is a wildfire, burning without direction. The Sith must take what the Jidai fear and refine it, wield it with purpose.
To love is not a weakness. To love foolishly is
Love is the inevitable result of passion. The pursuit of power, of greatness, of supremacy will, in time, lead to bonds between those who walk the same path. But the difference between strength and weakness is in how love is used. Love can be a distraction, a chain that pulls one away from ambition, a weakness that tempts one toward mercy where it is undeserved. Or it can be a source of strength, a fuel that empowers, that drives a Sith to reach ever greater heights, not for the sake of their beloved, but for the sake of their own power. If love makes you soft, you are unworthy of it. If love makes you strong, you have mastered it.
A Sith does not love as the weak do. A Sith does not give themselves over to sentiment, to sacrifice, to the foolish notion that love is a thing to be served. Love serves you. If it does not, it must be discarded.
The Three Faces of Desire
Passion manifests in many ways, but sex is its most primal expression. Here too, one must discern between strength and weakness, between mastery and indulgence. There are three kinds of carnal union, and each serves a purpose.
The first is that which satisfies base physical pleasure. This is simple, instinctual, without meaning beyond the moment. It is nothing more than bodily gratification, a release of tension, a means to sate urges that would otherwise become distractions. This purpose is best served by slaves, by those who exist only to obey, who have no value beyond the brief amusement they provide. It is pleasure stripped of meaning, and therefore, it holds no consequence.
The second is an act of domination. There is more to pleasure than flesh; there is the contest of will, the battle for supremacy, the raw assertion of power over another. When a Sith takes an inferior or rival to bed, it is not mere indulgence, it is a struggle. It is an arena no different from the battlefield, where victory is not only measured in pleasure but in control. In this, there is power. To take and to be taken in a contest of power, an act that reinforces hierarchy, that cements one’s place above another or binds them in the heat of competition. The strong understand this, and they make such encounters as much a weapon as they do a pleasure.
The third is reserved for the rarest of bonds, those between a husband and wife. In such a union, sex is not simply about gratification or domination, it is about the construction of something greater. A dynasty. A legacy. It is only in this union that something more than contest and pleasure is permitted. Love, within the confines of marriage, is acceptable only when it fuels ambition. A Sith may take their pleasure where they wish, but only in the bed of a spouse does passion intertwine with purpose.
The Purpose of Marriage
The Jidai scoff at marriage, seeing it as another bond that weakens the will. The Sith understand that marriage is not about devotion, it is about legacy.
No matter how strong a Sith may be, no matter how vast their dominion, the body will one day fail. But the power they have seized need not die with them. Marriage, at its core, is about ensuring that one’s strength does not fade into oblivion, that what has been built endures long after flesh turns to dust. It is not a matter of sentiment, of companionship, of fragile affections, it is about shaping the next generation, about ensuring that one’s line remains worthy of the name it carries.
To marry is to forge a union that will extend one’s will beyond death itself. It is not to be entered into lightly, nor chosen on the whims of affection alone. A partner must be selected with the mind, not the heart. There must be passion, without it, the union is weak, but passion alone is not enough. The Sith must ask themselves: What does this alliance create? Does it strengthen, or does it diminish? Will the bloodline that emerges from this union be one of power, or will it dilute what has been earned?
Marriage for power alone is hollow. Marriage for love alone is foolish. The Sith who understands the Code seeks a partner who will enhance them, one who will challenge them, one who will make them stronger. And above all, they must consider the heir they will produce. For that is the true purpose of marriage, to craft a successor worthy of inheriting one’s dominion, to ensure that the bloodline carries on not merely in name, but in strength.
The weak marry for comfort. The Sith marry to shape the galaxy.
The Matter of Sexuality
Among the lesser beings, much is made of sexuality, who one loves, who one desires, who one takes to their bed. Such concerns are meaningless to a Sith. A Sith loves whom they will, desires whom they choose, and indulges in whomever they find worthy. The Force does not care for the trivialities of gender, nor do those who wield it.
Yet while private preference is of no consequence, public perception is another matter. The Sith are an order of dominion, and dominion is built on dynasty. A Sith may love as they please, but they must always project the idea of legacy, of bloodlines that will continue to shape the future. One may indulge in whatever pleasures they wish behind closed doors, but in the eyes of the galaxy, the Sith must be seen as architects of powerful lineages, as the bearers of names that will endure for generations.
It is not a question of morality. It is a question of image. And the wise Sith knows that image is as much a weapon as any blade.
The Matter of Jealousy
Where there is passion, there will be jealousy. It is no weakness to feel it; it is simply another form of desire, an expression of one’s instinct to possess, to dominate, to own. In a Sith relationship, whether forged in fire or calculation, jealousy is not only expected, it is natural. We do not pretend we are above it, nor do we suppress it as the Jidai do.
But a Sith does not surrender to feeling. A Sith wields it. Jealousy, properly channelled, becomes a source of strength. It sharpens ambition, intensifies hunger, reminds one what is theirs and why they will not surrender it. A Sith who feels jealousy must use it to fuel their growth, to burn hotter, strike harder, ascend faster. It should drive them not to destruction, but to dominance.
Yet there is a balance. Jealousy, when allowed to fester unchecked, curdles into resentment. And resentment becomes hatred. Not the righteous hatred we channel against our enemies, but a cancerous poison directed inward, at those we have chosen to stand beside us. This is the death of a union, and the beginning of betrayal. A Sith who allows jealousy to grow into a weapon they cannot control will find themselves at war with their own foundation.
Use it. Let it drive you. But master it, or it will master you.
The Matter of Sacrifice
Love is not weakness, but only as long as it serves you. An alliance with one you love, one you desire, one with whom you have forged a legacy, must be guarded like any other stronghold. It must be defended against slights, challenges, and ambitions that seek to undermine it. To protect one’s chosen partner is to protect one's dynasty, one’s investment, one’s power. If a rival lays a finger upon your spouse, or dares to insult your claim, they must be corrected, publicly and thoroughly.
But even the strongest fortress can become a ruin. The same person who once enhanced your power can, over time, become a weight upon it. A partner who falters, who fails to evolve, who grows bitter or small as you ascend, such a person becomes a danger. Love may be strong, but it must never come before the pursuit of victory.
A Sith must always be ready to cut ties, no matter how deep the bond. The preservation of your legacy, your ascent, your vision must come first. A Sith who sacrifices their power for the sake of sentiment is no Sith at all, they are prey, and prey is short-lived in our world.
To know when to fight for your union is strength. To know when to end it, cleanly and without regret, is mastery.
Passion Mastered
The Jidai look upon passion and see danger. They see bonds that weaken, distractions that erode discipline, attachments that lead to ruin. And they are right, for the weak.
But the Sith do not fear passion. The Sith master it. Love can be strength, if it is wielded as a blade. Desire can be power, if it is understood as a tool. Marriage can be an empire, if it is built for purpose.
The Jidai flee from what they cannot control. The Sith take it, shape it, make it serve their will. Passion is not the enemy of power, it is its greatest fuel.
But only if one is strong enough to control it.